Anamika S. Jain has bot a social media consultant for six years. She has written more than 200 articles on relationships and dating.
What does it take to be a good Gf? Being the Ideal and Ideal One
Many women find it effortless to get into a relationship but find it utterly difficult to maintain it. Many of them do mistakes which costs them their love and relationship. I have done it too and that is why I would like to share tips on How to be a good gf your Bf would want for keeps. If you want your man to propose you and not dump you, then you should make sure that you are the type of damsel whom he would be proud to showcase off to the world. How to be a good gf? What are some key characteristics and qualities of a good gf? What are the mistakes you should avoid to have a healthy relationship?
There are many things women do unconsciously without knowing that it could hurt the relationship. No one is born volmaakt. But wij can strive to be better. Given below are some tips to guide woman on how to be a marriage material.
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Are you a good gf? Do you have the traits or Qualities that Fellows look te their girlfriends? How to be a better gf? What are the Characteristics of an ideal life playmate? How would your Man rate you spil a Gf? I am sure you would be able get the answers to thesis Questions on your own after reading this Hub.
None of us are ideal. But it does not hurt to attempt to be better person. Many times wij do mistakes unintentionally which can sometimes ruin our life and relationships. Given are Ten common mistakes chicks make when they are ter a serious relationship.
- Being clingy: Are you a clingy gf? I don’t blame you, this is one major mistake many woman commit. I have even known chicks who go to the extent of stalking their guys. If you are permanently around your man or talking to him always on phone, you need to zekering. I have even seen chicks who keep wrapping their arms around the playmate ter public and private alike spil if announcing to the world that, ‘He is my private property. Keep away!’ Your fucking partner may like your attention for some time but after that he might get annoyed. If you do not draw the line at permanently wanting to be around your Beau, then he will look for ways to get away from you rather than spend his time with you. Just understand that your man has his own identity and interests and by being clingy you would only pursue him away. Learn to trust your Playmate and give him the required space. Ter brief, have a life of your own too.
- Not providing enough time to the Relationship: Chicks want stability ter relationships. They want relationships to end te the altar rather than pauze ups. Do not begin talking about marriage and children too prompt ter your relationship. Permit things to take its natural course. Cherish your time together and do not rush your Fellow requiring commitment from him ter the initial phases of a relationship. Just attempt to be optimistic and love your romance than worry about future. Frequent cancelling of dates can give him the impression that you do not like him enough to spend time with him. However, beware of boys who have a commitment phobia and wants to be a ‘forever beau’.
- Not caring much about Appearance: Be presentable always. Make sure to look good and presentable te vooraanzicht of his family and friends. Dress welvoeglijk without being trampy. When you are on a date out or spending time with him, make an effort to dress to impress. Take good care of your appearance and hygiene.
- Taking your Stud for granted: Guys love attention too! Do things for your Boy. You may cook him a special dinner, arrange a romantic date, dress up for him (or dress down depending on the nature of your relationship), give him a verrassing bounty or do whatever you think he would like. Romantic gestures can play an significant role te keeping your man blessed. When your man is down or depressed, be his support and shoulder. Give him motivation or pampering when he needs it. Congratulate him on his accomplishments and make a point to make him toegevoegd special on days like his bday, your anniversary, valentine’s day etc. Let him know that you love him and care for him.
- Not being Respectful and Fair: Give your man the respect he is worth and never belittle him ter gevelbreedte of others. Hiding secrets from your Beau can harm your relationship. Even if you have done something you regret, it is better to tell him than let him find on his own. Lies often get caught and he will lose all that trust he had on you. If you have done a mistake, accept it and apologize. Develop that honesty and transparency te your communication te such a manner that he also would never hide anything from you. Be faithful to your Man. You may be venturing your relationship by being deceitful and not being fair. Do not give any chance for your playmate to point fingers at you.
- Being too controlling: Permit your Man to make the very first budge. Guys like to take the lead. Permit him to pursue you than the other way around. Let him initiate and project the dates than you doing it from your side. This will help you know if he is genuinely interested te you or if you are just a convenience for him. However, there is no harm te you taking the initiative merienda te a while. However, do not take any crap from anyone, even if he is your beau. Do not manhandle your fucking partner physically or vocally and never let him do that to you.
- Comparing with Ex and talking of Past: Many ladies commit the mistake of comparing their current Bf with their Ex. This is one of the best things a doll can do if she wants to pursue the Fellow away. Even if you are playing the spel to see how your Man would react or if it wasgoed a harmless comparison made without thinking, your Stud would most most likely take it spil a sign that you have not fully moved on from your previous relationship. Even if he does not take it te that manner, comparisons are certainly going to hurt his ego and your relationship with him.
- Attempt to keep him away from his friends or Family: Are you someone who always looks for excuses to keep your Man away from his friends and family? Do you object when he tells that he wants to go out with his Pals and insist that he spends time with you? If so, it’s time you switch. Just understand that his friends and family are his part of life much before you. Be friendly with his family and friends but never cross your thresholds by being overheen friendly or predominant. Your man would appreciate if you get along well with the people who matter to him. You may not like some of his friends but when you meet them make a conscious effort to be polite and nice with them.
- Not understanding your Fucking partner: One main characteristic of a good gf is that she understands hier playmate well and hier Beau can rely on hier to be there for him when he needs hier. That is where good communication and spending quality time with your Fellow regularly plays a trascendental role. Develop the convenience capability número so that he feels at ease with you enough to share everything. Listen to his needs, worries and passions. Also trust him with your concerns and problems. Be supportive to your Dude’s Career and Hobbies. Understand his problems and pressures. Attempt to adapt to his likes and interests (This does not mean that you have to give up yours). Attempt doing things he like at times even if you would choose to do something else. He would truly appreciate that. Whenever there is a misunderstanding inbetween you, make it a point to clear it instantly. Avoid talking about each and everything about your love life to your girlfriends or family members.The problems ter your relationship are yours to tackle and spil far spil possible do not involve a third person ter it. Attempt not to get into the nagging mode. A nagging gf is spil much spil a turn off spil a nagging wifey. Maintain a positive outlook. Don’t expect your Beau to read your mind. Make sure that you voice your needs, desires and opinion but not te a requesting manner. If you are cribbing and complaining always, it would not take much time for your boy to run away from you.
- Being Superficial: Don’t attempt to be someone whom you are not. Let your Stud see the actual you. Let him like you and love you spil yourself.
Getting a Bf can be a good feeling for any lady. But if you do not treat your Stud right, you will be venturing your relationship. There is a telling, ‘Treat others the way you want yourself to be treated’. When you do that you are likely to get the same too. Knowing how to be an ideal gf and taking steps towards it is an excellent way to ensure that you end up with a wedding stadionring on your mitt and not get dumped. Now that I have pointed out the mistakes a woman should avoid for being a good gf, I hope you would take the advice and switch your behavior.
You have got the man of your Wishes. Now it is your turn to appreciate the presence of your Beau ter your life and be a good gf to him.