Why You Should Trust Mij on this Subject
Very first, I’m a dude, so I have very first mitt practice with liking a woman and I know what I do (or did) when those feelings were welling up inwards of mij. 2nd, I’ve bot an independent observer of my friends who are masculine, and a frequent voeling with friends who are female when the question arose.
But one more reason to trust mij on this question is that I’m the father of three daughters and I’m passing on advice they are likely to read some day, so I want it to be spil truthful and helpful spil possible to my readers.
Commence with the Visible
Boys are fairly well known to be semi-transparent. Dishonest sometimes, unwilling to talk at other times, but semitransparent nonetheless. The point is, if a dude likes you, he isn’t likely to keep it a secret for long. He will tell you.
More likely, he will ask you on a date, or to spend some time with him ter ways other than just casually meeting where your mutual friends can be found all together. He wants to spend time with just you. By doing this, he’s telling you there’s something special about you.
But this is where it becomes more complicated, and the part about honesty and openness become significant.
Because life trains us all that a stud may voorstelling rente only ter hook-up, and want nothing more than that. Of course, spil a dame, you’re not asking this question because that’s all you’re looking for – you want to know if a fellow indeed likes you.
Every lady wants to be physically attractive, but spil I would tell my own daughters, the response to the question of a boy liking you is much, much deeper and one both people should take the time to understand very deeply.
All the Right Reasons
Physical attraction is a fine place to commence, but what you truly want to know is does a man like mij for all the right reasons. The physical part of the attraction is more visible, the surplus takes more time.
Don’t let yourself be caught off guard. What I mean by that is most damsels don’t think much te advance about why a stud should like hier. They may have a pretty good idea about what they like te a boy, but I see so many damsels, even women ter their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, who don’t indeed think about what the man should like about hier. It’s interesting because women are very good about evaluating whether other women are good for a dude, but introspection seems difficult for many females, perhaps because there’s a tendency to be overly critical of themselves.
But what I’m talking about here is different. And it’s significant because it helps response the diferente question. Don’t make it a self-analysis, but ask yourself, OK, if you were ter his footwear what would you be interested ter that makes you attractive to him.
Where His Heart Is
Merienda you’ve done what I suggest above, you will know what a veritable rente on his part would look like, bijzonder from something nefarious. Then you can take the concentrate off yourself and go back to him. How do you know if he truly likes you?
Again, guys are pretty translucent. They may not be spil te touch with their emotions spil you are, but they have a much stiffer time hiding them. Sure, ter longer term relationships, boys often “shut down”, don’t demonstrate emotion, or lose touch. This is truly a different subject tho’, and for another time.
On the pui end, however, guys can often be an open book – not always – but often. If a stud truly likes you, he won’t be able to keep you off his mind. And he’ll have a hard time putting off calling you, or emailing, or texting, or coming to see you. He will want to see, hear, and be near you all the time. Love is a wonderful, mystical thing at times – it truly is!
But even guys cannot all be waterput into one nice category and left there. Some guys are different. The most certain are often very slow to give a excellent overeenkomst of attention – partly because they don’t usually give their heart. Other guys overdo the attention, usually out of insecurity, but sometimes merely out of a poorly conceived sense of chivalry.
The latter often make good husbands, but ter that case, both need to be careful that the chemistry is truly there before you get too deeply involved.