Thank Maker it’s not the 50s, where all of us women had to stand around the edges of a dance antesala waiting to be asked to do the Westelijk Coast Sway and accept a marriage proposal under the threat of “being left on the shelf.” Now wij get to take control: Wij can browse dating websites for potential suitors and determine who, where, and when wij date. Ter theory. But for some reason, there is still a stigma linked to women initiating voeling on dating websites.
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So here are my top tips for seeming empowered, and not needy, by contacting him very first.
- Be specific: Neediness is generally characterized by just needing anyone. If you’re blanket messaging a generic text to every stud you stumble across on a dating webpagina, this would suggest that, a) you have far too much time on your forearms or b) you’re entirely discontent with being a “single lady” and need to switch your relationship status on Facebook to ‘married’ before you can loosen. Avoid providing off the impression of either of thesis things by taking your time to write why you contacted him. Give specific details of what it wasgoed te his profile that made you smile, and stress your common interests. He’ll feel privileged that a woman he has so much te common with has written to him.
Still unconvinced? Then just recall that you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. If he doesn’t reply, so what? If a dude can’t see how amazing you are, then he’s clearly not the right man for you. Feeling regret at what could have bot is a lotsbestemming of a stronger cargo, than attempting and failing.
Besides, he’s going to love you. So what are you waiting for? Fire him off a message, and let mij know the good results!