How To Flirt With A Guy

How to Flirt with a Guy

Are you shy, nervous, or just plain confused on the fine art of flirting? We've got your tips for how to flirt with a guy right here. These tips and tricks will help you become an expert in flirting in no time!

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Now in order to know how to flirt with a guy, you need to understand the purpose of flirting. The purpose of flirting is to test the waters to see if the guy that you are interested is also feeling the same way about you. It also acts as a filter for you because during the flirting process you can tell if you like the guy's personality. If he flirts like a sleaze and has no class, chances are he is that type of guy - so avoid him!

But if he's a nice guy, then you keep him around and see what else he has to offer.

So now, how do you flirt with a guy? Well keep these two tips in your mind the next time you want flirt:

Tease him - In other words, you want to come across as if you two are really close and have rapport with each other. What better way to demonstrate this by playfully teasing him? If you tease him in this way, he'll see you as being playful and full of personality. So if he teases you back then you can monitor the interaction and figure out what he is really thinking.

One powerful way to test a guy if he likes you through teasing him is to give him a playful and cutesy nickname. You can say something like "oh you're so cute, you can be my own little hubby bear". If you call him that and he calls you something playful and cute back, then you know he likes you. However, if he doesn't respond to you positively, then take note!

Sexual innuendo - You only use sexual innuendo when you want to take the interaction to a higher level. So in other words you only use sexual innuendo when you want to date or start a relationship with a guy. This is very powerful, so please do not use this all the time otherwise you'll just be seen as a "flirt" and that is unattractive.

So how do you use sexual innuendo without coming across as being unclassy? You need to first establish some sort of communication with the guy where you let him know that it's ok for him to start talking with a sexual tone. If you are giving hints and the guy still does not pick up on the fact that you want him to flirt with you, you can say something like:

"so this little birdie was just wondering what you might be up to on the weekend..."

If you said "this little birdie" you are letting the guy know that you are being playful as you as using a cute cartoon character as a representation for you. He should pick up the fact that you're flirting and want to know what he is doing on the weekend and then respond accordingly.

How To Flirt With A Guy: Practical Advice

Now once you understand the basics of flirting, you need to be able to keep the following points in mind also.

First of all, maximize your appearance. Yes, this is VERY shallow, but men are unfortunely SHALLOW creatures. Now, this doesn't mean you've got to have a body like a model or get all dressed up every time you go out. Just make sure you look nice, clean, and pretty when you're ready to start flirting. Wear some perfume so you'll smell nice. Put on a little gloss or even lipstick to brighten your smile. Make sure your teeth are brushed and your breath is fresh. No guy's interested in flirting with a girl who doesn't take good care of herself!

Then, start by being sweet and vulnerable. Guys sometimes fall for the girl who acts like a tough chick, but most guys fall hardest for a sweet, kind girl with a good personality. Be kind and complimentary of others... don't gossip or backstab. It doesn't hurt to appear a little shy, either. Try looking up at him through your eyelashes... this is a classic flirty move that guys fall for every time!

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Show interest in the guy you're flirting with. My number one tip for how to flirt with a guy is to get him talking about himself. Guys love to talk about themselves, and they find girls who are interested in them the most attractive. Make sure to be a good listener... don't ask questions if you're not generally interested in his answers. When he tells you something about himself, say, "Wow- that's so interesting. I'd love to know more about that." He'll be like putty in your hands then!

Praise him, but don't go overboard. Just like girls, guys love to be complimented. Telling him his clothes look nice, his new haircut is great, or he smells really wonderful are all great ideas, but anyone can tell when a compliment doesn't sound honest. So, only be complimentary if you really believe what you're saying. Also, a great trick is just to notice something. For instance, you could say, "I notice you've gotten your hair cut." This way, you're showing him you take an interest in what he's doing, but you don't look desperate.

Another final tip about how to flirt with a guy... when he compliments you, accept it with grace. If he says you're wearing a great new shirt, just say, "Thanks I really like this shirt, too." Guys get so annoyed when girls constantly brush off compliments, so don't say, "Oh, this old thing? I think it makes me look fat!" Project confidence and he'll totally believe you're deserving of every compliment you get.

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