Insider Information: Dating Advice for
Women by Men
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A lot of my girlfriends and I have been
wondering what guys really want when they are
dating us. We've sat and talked about it a
bunch of times, but I finally decided that I
was tired of guessing. I want dating advice for
women from men.
I found some guys at the local coffee shop
and asked them if they'd help out. What follows
is what they told me, the unadulterated truth
as they see it. Brace yourselves girls, the
answers might surprise you.
It would seem that all of our old etiquette
books have lied to us; men do not want their
woman to be docile. According to my sample, men
are just as afraid of rejection as many
women.
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Dating Advice For Women By Men: The
Truth!
Derek, 26, said that the best piece of advice he could give
to women is to make the first move. "It can be very
intimidating to approach a woman. We take all the chances for
rejection and sometimes it'd be nice to be the one getting
chased." Dave, 23, went further saying, "No matter how cute she
is I won't walk up to a girl when she's out with her friends.
It seems so invasive to interrupt their group. Ladies, we're
always looking to meet someone, so it's a safe bet when you
come to talk to US."
Women should remain active partners once they are actually
dating, too. Brandon, 22, said that he looks for women that
know what they want to do. "It gets tiring, always having to
come up with new ideas for dates. Every once in a while, it'd
be nice if she had an idea of where to go or what to do." Dave
agreed adding, "Do you know how sick of 'I don't know, what do
YOU want to do' I am?" Steve, 20, picked up on this thread,
saying "How would you feel if your man didn't seem to care
about anything? That's what it starts to feel like when a woman
has no ideas." There is also the risk, according to Derek that
you will bore him. "If I wanted to be in control of everything,
I'd just watch porn. You have a mind use it! If you don't, I
promise you I'm going to lose interest quickly."
Despite what we've been told by magazines and Hollywood, men
care about more than our looks or as Dave puts it, "I want to
know that you've got a brain. I want my girlfriend to make me
want to be better. Looking good is nice, but that's only a
small part of what keeps us interested." "Have opinions and
ideas of your own," advises Derek. He says that he looks for
intelligence in his partners. "I mean, if you don't show me
that you have your own brain than I'm not going to respect your
opinions. I think this is how women get disrespected so much.
If you start of letting me do all the thinking how am I going
to respect your ideas later on?"
They all agreed that one of the biggest mistakes a woman could
make while dating is to get "too serious." Dave said it best,
"If you start talking about love or marriage or anything like
that on the third date, you've signed a death warrant on the
relationship. We may want to go that route sometime, but first
we want to have fun and get to know you."
I don't know about you, but I was surprised to hear these
answers. Who knew that men were so much like us; that they want
a partner to be engaged in the relationship, to have brains and
the courage to speak their mind? I had started to believe
that all they were really looking for was cleavage and a pretty
face. But it seems that to be successful dating women should
take the advice offered freely by men; be yourself and have
fun.
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